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it's okay to cry

9/2/22


hello cherubs! I cannot believe that it is already SEPTEMBER! where has the time gone?! I am sort of happy though because the summer heat is finally going away & we are venturing into fall weather.


but along with this seasonal change, we do have the party pooper of seasonal depression. by definition, seasonal depression, or seasonal affective disorder, is a mood disorder characterized by depression that occurs at the same time every year.


usual self-diagnosable symptoms of SAD:

  • fatigue

  • depression

  • hopelessness

  • social withdrawal

other common symptoms of seasonal depression:

  • mood: anxiety, apathy, general discontent, loneliness, loss of interest, mood swings, or sadness

  • sleep: excess sleepiness, insomnia, or sleep deprivation

  • whole body: appetite changes or fatigue

  • behavioral: irritability or social isolation

  • also common: depression, lack of concentration, or weight gain


some helpful home remedies for seasonal depression from wonderhowto on Pinterest:

  • use a light therapy box, an electronic light that mimics outdoor light. sit in front of one for 30 minutes a day, it will help stimulate your body's circadian rhythms.

what are circadian rhythms? (if you're like me, you might not be sure what they are) circadian rhythm, or circadian cycle, is a natural, internal process that regulates the sleep-wake cycle and repeats roughly every 24 hours. it can refer to any process that originates within an organism and responds to the environment.


  • wake up with a dawn simulator. unlike alarms, dawn simulators gradually brighten in intensity like the sun, which can help people with SAD.

  • take in natural sunlight as much as possible, like walking outdoors at noon.

  • paint your indoor walls a light color. trim your shrubs, hedges or branches that block sunlight from coming into your windows.

  • exercise, eat healthy, and maintain a regular sleep schedule.

  • stay socially active and focus on the fun aspects of winter

  • if at all possible, vacation somewhere with a warmer climate.

if your symptoms persist or worsen, seek the help of a doctor or a mental health professional.





sometimes the best thing you can do is let it all out. crying is not a bad emotion. crying is not specific to gender. crying is healthy.


benefits of crying:

  • it's a form of self-expression

  • it offers a release of pent-up emotions

  • it allows our bodies to actively participate

  • it confronts us with our emotions

  • it connects us with our values

  • it aids self-soothing

  • it may help to improve our mood

  • it helps our bodies recover from psychological pain

  • it signals to others that we may need help

  • it helps us communicate and connect with ourselves

  • it works to restore our emotional balance

crying does not mean you are weak, it means that you have ability to show emotion. don't be afraid to let it out. it will help.



 



I hope this blog helped something or someone.


take care of you!


I'll see you guys in the next one.

xx Loryn

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If you are in need, please seek help from the resources below:

Call 911 if you or someone you know is in immediate danger.

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 for a 24-hours, confidential support to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress.

SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357), a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service for individuals or families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.

The American Counseling Association also provides a lengthy list of resources, https://www.counseling.org/knowle.../mental-health-resources

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